I have a friend who’s having a hard time professionally.  She’s been having a hard time personally for a couple of year as well.  She seems really unhappy, depressed, and overwhelmed.   I know there have been some unexpected set-backs in her life. She doesn’t appear willing to slow down to talk, meet up, or take care of herself.  I’m worried that she’s going to metaphorically fall asleep at the wheel, and then crash and burn.

If you see yourself in this description, please know that I love and care about you.  However, I can’t help you unless you let me.  I can’t help unless you’re willing to change just a little.